Understand: as children and young adults, we are taught to conform to certain codes of behavior and ways of doing things. We learn that being different comes with a social price.

If he invited you out, he’s got to pay.

Chastity – the most unnatural of all the sexual perversions.

I didn’t just invent saying offensive things.

A consistent thinker is a thoughtless person, because he conforms to a pattern; he repeats phrases and thinks in a groove.

In order to be an immaculate member of a flock of sheep, one must above all be a sheep oneself.

We are second-hand people. We have lived on what we have been told, either guided by our inclinations, our tendencies, or compelled to accept by circumstances and environment. We are the result of all kinds of influences, and there is nothing new in us, nothing that we have discovered for ourselves: nothing original, pristine, clear.

Well, they’re Southern people, and if they know you are working at home they think nothing of walking right in for coffee. But they wouldn’t dream of interrupting you at golf.

The last proceeding of reason is to recognize that there is an infinity of things which are beyond it. There is nothing so conformable to reason as this disavowal of reason.

It is unbecoming for young men to utter maxims.

Too often the strong, silent man is silent only because he does not know what to say, and is reputed strong only because he has remained silent.

Where I come from it was really unheard of to be at a party and someone says, ‚What kind of music do you make?‘, and you say, ‚Pop music.‘ You may as well have ‚I’m not cool‘ stamped on your forehead.

We cannot expect that all nations will adopt like systems, for conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.

I never set out to be weird. It was always other people who called me weird.

When you put on a uniform, there are certain inhibitions that you accept.

When you’re just like everybody else, you’ve nothing to offer other than your conformity.

Throughout my years in business, I discovered something. I would always ask why you do things. The answers that I would invariably get are: ‚Oh, that’s just the way things are done around here.‘ Nobody knows why they do what they do. Nobody thinks very deeply about things in business.

Once conform, once do what other people do because they do it, and a lethargy steals over all the finer nerves and faculties of the soul. She becomes all outer show and inward emptiness; dull, callous, and indifferent.

Mathematics takes us into the region of absolute necessity, to which not only the actual word, but every possible word, must conform.

People like me were supposed to be into exclusivity, unapproachable. That’s what I hate most. I think it’s very demode.

All cultures have these feelings about non-functional areas of activity. And the more time people have on their hands, the more they commit it to those areas.

My peers, lately, have found companionship through means of intoxication – it makes them sociable. I, however, cannot force myself to use drugs to cheat on my loneliness – it is all that I have – and when the drugs and alcohol dissipate, will be all that my peers have as well.

The respected intellectuals are those who conform and serve power interests.

While children are struggling to be unique, the world around them is trying all means to make them look like everybody else.

Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.

Genteel women suppose that those things do not really exist about which it is impossible to talk in polite company.

You aren’t normal if you sing to people. You aren’t a normal person. It’s nerve-racking.

People have really gotten comfortable not only sharing more information and different kinds, but more openly and with more people – and that social norm is just something that has evolved over time.

It is impossible, in our condition of Society, not to be sometimes a Snob.

Somewhere it is written that parents who are critical of other people’s children and publicly admit they can do better are asking for it.

Nothing is as approved as mediocrity, the majority has established it and it fixes its fangs on whatever gets beyond it either way.

The unsaid rule for living in a trailer park is: ‚If the door’s shut, don’t come a-knockin.‘ But if it’s open and you’re walkin‘ by, feel free to say, ‚Hello.‘

In America everybody is of the opinion that he has no social superiors, since all men are equal, but he does not admit that he has no social inferiors, for, from the time of Jefferson onward, the doctrine that all men are equal applies only upwards, not downwards.

There are many times when a woman will ask another girl friend how she likes her new hat. She will reply, ‚Fine,‘ but slap her hand to her forehead the minute the girl leaves to yipe, ‚What a horror!‘

Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.

Just as the humble, unassuming, assenting ‚O.K.‘ has deposed the more affirmative ‚Yes,‘ so the little cringe and hesitation and approximation of ‚like‘ are a help to young people who are struggling to negotiate the shoals and rapids of ethnic identity, the street, and general correctness.

Arguments are extremely vulgar, for everyone in good society holds exactly the same opinion.

You may be educated abroad, you may be a great scientist, politician, but you always have a sneaking fear that if you don’t go to temples or do the ordinary things that you have been told to do, something evil might happen, so you conform. What happens to the mind that conforms? Investigate it, please.

Consciously or unconsciously most of us adhere to what is expected of our role because we realize our social success depends on this. Some may refuse to play this game, but in the end they are marginalized and forced to play the outsider role, with limited options and decreasing freedom as they get older.

The English don’t like concepts, really, not from a pop star. It’s alright if they come from an ‚intellectual,‘, but from a pop star you’re getting ahead of yourself. Part of the class game is that you shouldn’t rise above your station, and to start talking about concepts if you’re in the pop world is getting a bit uppity, isn’t it?

Most people are happy being average. Most are happy being faceless in a sea of faces.

Everybody around me had a Snapchat, and I said I would never get on it. I’m still on Instagram, you know? They convinced me to get Snapchat.

We are justified in enforcing good morals, for they belong to all mankind; but we are not justified in enforcing good manners, for good manners always mean our own manners.

It is hard to be an individual in Japan.

I’m a woman, and anytime you tell a woman that she looks nice, it’s not going to upset her.

Black men don’t like to be called ‚boys,‘ but women accept being called ‚girls.‘

It’s very strange to go to cities like London and New York. People walk so quickly, they seem to be in a hurry all the time. And you don’t say ‚Hi‘ to everyone you meet, and you don’t smile to everyone you meet, because there’s just so many. Which is also very strange.

No people is wholly civilized where a distinction is drawn between stealing an office and stealing a purse.

It’s vulgar, coming from where I do, to talk about money.

My message isn’t perfectly defined. I have, as a human being, fallen to peer pressure.

Every utopia – let’s just stick with the literary ones – faces the same problem: What do you do with the people who don’t fit in?

You know, you can make a small mistake in language or etiquette in Britain, or you could when I was younger, and really be made to feel it, and it’s the flick of a lash, but it would sting, and especially at school where there’s not much privacy, and so on. You could, yes, undoubtedly be made to feel crushed.

The more things are forbidden, the more popular they become.

We are so conformist; nobody is thinking. We are all sucking up stuff; we have been trained to be consumers, and we are all consuming far too much.

I don’t have much patience for people who are self-conscious about the act of eating, and it irritates me when someone denies themselves the pleasure of a bloody hunk of steak or a pungent French cheese because of some outdated nonsense about what’s appropriate or attractive.

You should do what other people do, unless you have a very good reason not to.

Let’s face it. No kid in high school feels as though they fit in.

To hard necessity ones will and fancy must conform.

The moral disapprobation of society has an impact on behavior in societies.

At a formal dinner party, the person nearest death should always be seated closest to the bathroom.

I remember straightening my hair because I wanted to be like everybody else, and now the fact that anybody would emulate what I do? It’s just funny.